tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1784940136029401162.post3479085958949888829..comments2023-05-06T05:23:38.877-04:00Comments on A tale of Bi and Bi: When life is too busyBiLikesSciFihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09811350778828314222noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1784940136029401162.post-9079975646292620192012-07-24T15:12:10.661-04:002012-07-24T15:12:10.661-04:00I'm going through the same thing...not sure wh...I'm going through the same thing...not sure what has happened. But, I have faith we will get past this!Nastassja Kinkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09260805675446444142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1784940136029401162.post-28103739699928734192012-07-23T23:32:28.912-04:002012-07-23T23:32:28.912-04:00I know this rut. I've been in it recently. M...I know this rut. I've been in it recently. Making unexpected progress on a job I've been chasing since February helped kick me out of it a little, but the clutter in the house remaining from the move threatens to overwhelm me still.<br /><br />You'll get past it, I'm sure, and I'll applaud you when you do. If I can help in any way, p'raps with a clever tweet, just let me know. ;-)<br /><br />Stay SINful<br />Mr. APAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1784940136029401162.post-18631068402501819922012-07-23T22:36:31.764-04:002012-07-23T22:36:31.764-04:00We also shoot for somewhere in the neighborhood of...We also shoot for somewhere in the neighborhood of 7-10 times per week. So we understand that once a week, while a significant increase for some people, is a crushing loss to you both. <br /><br />And we understand that your instinct is to freak out. We totally understand that, especially based upon your previous relationship. If you hadn't mentioned it in your post, we would have pointed out that your current relationship is so much different than your sexless marriage. There is no reason to believe that you are celebrating your one-year anniversary by ceasing (or severely limiting) your sexual activity. <br /><br />The fact is, some couples go through lulls. When they do, there is typically a logical reason for it. As you point out, you are overwhelmed with work, and likely exhausted. The move likely didn't help; moving is generally stressful and exhausting.<br /><br />Since there are a multitude of other reasons for the relative lack of sex over the past week(s), I doubt that your desire for each other has waned in the least. It just doesn't sound like you. And while you say that you are feeling negative and out of patience, we think you have reason to be very, very positive. So the sex has slowed down lately. It's just temporary. The abundance of stress and lack of sleep will only last so long, and when the situation corrects itself the desire will still be there.<br /><br />Focus on the future, and know that you will be back to your normal rhythm before long. And we will be waiting.Jack and Jillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00621526029674020006noreply@blogger.com